[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.envivos.cz\/jak-vest-dialog-s-muzem\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.envivos.cz\/jak-vest-dialog-s-muzem\/","headline":"Jak v\u00e9st dialog s mu\u017eem","name":"Jak v\u00e9st dialog s mu\u017eem","description":"P\u0159iznejme si, \u017ee vyj\u00edt s\u00a0opa\u010dn\u00fdm pohlav\u00edm nen\u00ed mnohdy snadn\u00e9. A \u010dasto se nav\u00edc dopou\u0161t\u00edme chyb v\u00a0na\u0161em jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. Jak tedy v\u00e9st dialog s\u00a0mu\u017ei, aby naslouchali, ch\u00e1pali","datePublished":"2020-09-12","dateModified":"2023-05-04","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.envivos.cz\/author\/devene\/#Person","name":"devene","url":"https:\/\/www.envivos.cz\/author\/devene\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/edf965aa5e6319b22667bed24bb070a38fc0326fd1c728db50dc1d860a4a16ad?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/edf965aa5e6319b22667bed24bb070a38fc0326fd1c728db50dc1d860a4a16ad?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"envivos.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.envivos.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/art281197_1x1_20260617_225558_vUzXGc.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.envivos.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/art281197_1x1_20260617_225558_vUzXGc.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.envivos.cz\/jak-vest-dialog-s-muzem\/","about":["\u017divotn\u00ed styl"],"wordCount":460,"articleBody":"\tP\u0159iznejme si, \u017ee vyj\u00edt s\u00a0opa\u010dn\u00fdm pohlav\u00edm nen\u00ed mnohdy snadn\u00e9. A \u010dasto se nav\u00edc dopou\u0161t\u00edme chyb v\u00a0na\u0161em jedn\u00e1n\u00ed. Jak tedy v\u00e9st dialog s\u00a0mu\u017ei, aby naslouchali, ch\u00e1pali a abychom s nimi vych\u00e1zeli?\t\u00a0\t\tVyhn\u011bte se chyb\u00e1m\u00a7\u00a0 Zvolte spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 na\u010dasov\u00e1n\u00ed. Nevrhejte se na mu\u017ee hned ve dve\u0159\u00edch, po p\u0159\u00edchodu z\u00a0pr\u00e1ce\u00a7\u00a0 Mluvte jasn\u011b, stru\u010dn\u011b a k\u00a0v\u011bci\u00a7\u00a0 Nepou\u017e\u00edvejte\u00a0 pl\u00e1\u010d nebo v\u00fdhr\u016f\u017eky k\u00a0tomu, kdy\u017e po mu\u017ei n\u011bco chcete\u00a7\u00a0 Nemluvte hodiny a hodiny, mu\u017e tak dlouho neudr\u017e\u00ed pozornost\u00a7\u00a0 Nesna\u017ete se dos\u00e1hnout souhlasu pomoc\u00ed sexu\u00a7\u00a0 Nevolejte mu do pr\u00e1ce, abyste n\u011bco \u0159e\u0161ili\u00a7\u00a0 Nezesm\u011b\u0161\u0148ujte jeho schopnosti nebo pocity\u00a7\u00a0 Mluvte stru\u010dn\u011b, jasn\u011b, bez vyt\u00e1\u010dek a konkr\u00e9tn\u011b\u00a7\u00a0 Vyhn\u011bte se n\u00e1znak\u016fm, nar\u00e1\u017ek\u00e1m a nejasn\u00fdm formulac\u00edm\u00a7\u00a0 Hned na po\u010d\u00e1tku konverzace m\u011bjte jasn\u00fd pl\u00e1n, co je jej\u00edm c\u00edlem\u00a7\u00a0 Dr\u017ete sv\u00e9 emoce na uzd\u011b, mu\u017e si pak nev\u00ed rady a nev\u00ed, jak s\u00a0v\u00e1mi jednat\u00a7\u00a0 Nechte ho domluvit. \u017deny mnohdy sk\u00e1\u010dou do \u0159e\u010di a vy\u010d\u00edtaj\u00ed d\u0159\u00edv, ne\u017e se v\u016fbec partner vyj\u00e1d\u0159\u00ed\u00a7\u00a0 Dr\u017ete se pravidla 30 vte\u0159in. I kdy\u017e mu\u017e nejprve ml\u010d\u00ed, neznamen\u00e1 to, \u017ee v\u00e1s neposlouch\u00e1. Nechte ho ut\u0159\u00eddit my\u0161lenky. Mu\u017ei je nesypou z\u00a0ruk\u00e1vu hned, jako \u017eenyMluvit s mu\u017ei nen\u00ed slo\u017eit\u00e9. Jen je pot\u0159eba v\u011bd\u011bt, jak na n\u011b a jak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem s nimi jednat. N\u011bkdy to mo\u017en\u00e1 bude cht\u00edt trochu ovl\u00e1d\u00e1n\u00ed se, ale uvid\u00edte, \u017ee pokud na n\u011bj hned nevystartujete, sklid\u00edte \u00fasp\u011bch. Mu\u017ei se toti\u017e \u010dasto zatvrd\u00ed hned zpo\u010d\u00e1tku a pak s nimi nic nezm\u016f\u017eete.Nap\u0159\u00edklad, jestli\u017ee chcete, aby v\u00e1\u0161 mu\u017e doma promazal z\u00e1mek na dve\u0159\u00edch a st\u00e1le to nen\u00ed hotovo, \u0159ekn\u011bte ve spr\u00e1vn\u00e9 chv\u00edli: „V\u00ed\u0161, nechci t\u011b st\u00e1le nah\u00e1n\u011bt, jen se boj\u00edm, \u017ee jednoho dne se nedostanu dom\u016f.“ M\u00edsto toho, abyste na n\u011bho vybalila po p\u0159\u00edchodu dom\u016f: „Zase ten z\u00e1mek nen\u00ed hotov\u00fd, ty jsi neskute\u010dn\u00fd, dokud to neud\u011bl\u00e1\u0161, tak nebude sex!“Pokud s v\u00e1mi chce mu\u017e mluvit, va\u017ete si toho a vyslechn\u011bte ho. Uvid\u00edte, \u017ee a\u017e budete cht\u00edt mluvit vy, oplat\u00ed v\u00e1m to stejnou minc\u00ed a vyslechne on v\u00e1s. V\u011b\u0159te tomu, \u017ee nem\u00edt probl\u00e9m v komunikaci je ve vztahu velk\u00e1 v\u00fdhoda. Komunikace se nebojte. Pokud ji povedete spr\u00e1vn\u00fdm sm\u011brem a vhodn\u00fdmi pravidly, ur\u010dit\u011b vy\u0159e\u0161\u00edte mnoh\u00e9 sn\u00e1z.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Jak v\u00e9st dialog s mu\u017eem","item":"https:\/\/www.envivos.cz\/jak-vest-dialog-s-muzem\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]